This was something that was kind of brought up by fandom but it’s very interesting when a lot of men who’s favorite character is a strong independent female can’t handle one in real life. It’s just kind of ironic that they all like the idea of a strong woman but can’t actually handle a real one.
Being in fandom can be great experience a lot of the time, there is every so often that something happens that seems to shake things up. I personally like to stay away from that kind of thing, because sometimes it’s hard to when it seems like someone does something that makes it hard to be quiet. Last year it was a Tumblr account about Dramione (Draco & Hermione shippers), and now it’s an author who deleted all her work because she wanted more reviews.