There are too many John and Jane Doe cases out there, and so many of them have so little information. It really is heartbreaking because they were human and shouldn’t have to be buried in a grave without their names, being unknown to the world. I am really passionate about John and Jane Does getting their identities back, I think it is important.

This actually came up a few times for me in the last few months, most recently with my friend from high school about her nephew, and especially with the ending scene in Strike Back the second part of the season finale of Miraculous: Tales of Ladybug & Cat Noir. (Note this post will contain spoilers for season 4 of Miraculous.) Mostly with the comments from the fandom about it, and their lack of understanding what it really meant. This subject so to speak is really one I have been thinking about for at least a few years consciously, it’s just when you get a lot of fake apologies you start to figure out what it should be.

It’s fascinating how close we are to death and killers daily, and we never know until later if we find out at all. How close do we come to death on a regular bases? Who knows, especially when it is sometimes easier to see if someone is fucked up online and not in real life. I think those people probably hold their masks tighter in public but don’t worry about a slipping online.

Sadly, we don’t always get the answers in life that we want, and sometimes we don’t get any answers at all. That is life for the loved ones of people who went missing. This is their reality, they live through it daily hoping. That is why I think it is important to talk about, these families and friends deserve to know where their loved ones are at. I always hope that someone reading has the answers, and maybe they just don’t know that they are the missing piece to this.

I thought that a top ten for this would be fun and cute, and it would be a nice way to share what I’ve been listening too that I got off of the app TikTok. Since, most of my new music has come from there, YouTube, or various tv shows. This list is in no order, I like most of them pretty equally. I’ve wanted to do this for a while, but it was super hard to choose only ten, but if I didn’t I would be typing all day lol!