When I was under unfortunately I had a stepmother whom my dad eventually divorced before my twin and I hit middle school. She and her children were like a parallel of Cinderella’s stepmother and daughters. The sad part of it all is she pretended to be nice so that my dad would like her, and once they were married her real face was revealed. It always seems to be a lot after marriages and death that brings out the truth of who people really are.

So, I have brought back two old blog post that I was never planning to, The Situation & Seriously? because I was lied to and lied about. I was planning on ignoring it because I honestly didn’t want to deal with all this again, but it has come to a post that I can not. I have ignored it for way too long, and honestly it’s gotten out of hand. I really should have done sooner.

Being in fandom can be great experience a lot of the time, there is every so often that something happens that seems to shake things up. I personally like to stay away from that kind of thing, because sometimes it’s hard to when it seems like someone does something that makes it hard to be quiet. Last year it was a Tumblr account about Dramione (Draco & Hermione shippers), and now it’s an author who deleted all her work because she wanted more reviews.

I think everyone has that one person in their family who is just a flat out piece of shit, and actually there are a lot of them in my family. However, this one in particular is someone who I deleted almost ten years ago from my contacts and blocked her not too far after. That doesn’t stop her from getting new accounts to get around the blocks. She is probably the most psychotic person I’ve ever meet, and she tries to manipulate everyone.

I think one of the worst things about having a friendly personality is that people for some reason equal friendliness to flirting. This happened a lot when I worked at the convenience store, and the sad part I was literally paid to be nice to people, and it’s against the rules to flirt anyway. For some reason, a lot of people think it’s because the world is an unfriendly place and that being nice is somehow rare, and that is an excuse that people use, and I don’t think that is true. A lot of people are nice in this world and it’s not rare, this also makes it sound like women are only nice to men that they are attracted to, which to me is a really gross statement.