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In the last few months, my Papa aka my grandfather, because people think I’m talking about my dad for some reason, has been having a lot of health problems and on the second of this month he passed away. It’s been really hard on the family because while it felt fast and slow at the same time. My papa was a very strong person and he was very open-minded and was so sharp. Back when printing was still around, an art and a very sought after skill he was one in eleven of Master Printers in the state and that was the highest there was in the time.

I think what really sucks about it is that he and I were so close and I miss him a lot. I visited him all the time and loved to spend time with him, and my Twin was the same when she was home. In fact, my dad use to have him babysit us all through middle school and some of high when it was summer because he didn’t want us to be home alone even if all the other parents did. My twin and I got him into Sailor Moon and he would tell us to wake him up if he fell asleep. It was something the three of us bonded over.

I think that something you have some family members that you can never be sure if they love you or not, well that wasn’t him, Papa was someone you never doubted his love for you, and he loved you for who you were not who he wanted you to be. I’m just going to really miss him and I hate that he had to leave us.

The family was helping take care of Papa at first but he kept having to go to the hospital and he got told he had a brain tumor which was cancer, and a spot on his lungs with was suspected to also be cancer. This would have been the third and fourth time he would have had cancer. Over a month he stops being able to walk get a UTI and is sent to the hospital for that. Then because the family is no longer equipped to take care of him we put him in a nursing and rehab center, they are supposed to be equipped to deal with this and are supposed to be skilled to.

Unfortunately, that wasn’t the case as if the family didn’t pull Papa out of there when they did he would have died in a lot of pain. The place was near home so many family and friends visited that place a lot, so this scum place was only trying to get my Papa’s money and not do their jobs. His UTI came back, they fed him solid foods when they knew he was on an all-liquid diet, he wasn’t drinking or eating, so he was dehydrated and was malnutrition, he had super large bedsores, and they didn’t clean him and let him pee and throw up all the time. Plus a lot more.

That place made the last week of his life because he died a week after he left there hard and painful, Papa complained about his bedsores and the pain that they kept him in until the day he stopped being responsive. I think that it’s a shame that these places are allowed to get away with this, and they prey on the elder like this. My papa did not deserve this, no one does.

I’m going to share a photo that I restored of him or honor him. <3 Rip Papa

Tiffany

I am a millennial female and proud of it! From the state that's called the armpit of the south and the sunshine state. I'm a wannabe writer and artist, who likes blogging, and anything DYI. Is fandom trash and lives to ship fictional characters together. Favorite fruit is lemon, loves veggie sushi, and I am always carb loading.

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Comments (15) »

seniority1992@gmail.com - August 20, 2019 @ 9:04 pm

I’m so sorry to hear that, your family are in my prayers. I know how it feels to have a loss in the family, I lost my grandfather about 8 years ago & I still haven’t coped.

Britt K - August 22, 2019 @ 3:53 pm

I am so sorry for your loss. Wishing you and your loved ones all the comfort and support that you need at this difficult time

Rach - August 22, 2019 @ 4:11 pm

Hi Tiffany! I’m so sorry for the loss of your grandpa. Prayers said. God bless!!

glowsteady - August 22, 2019 @ 6:00 pm

So sorry for your loss and that his experience in that care home was so bad. I’m really close with my grandparents so I can only imagine how tough this time has been x

Sophie
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ThatAutisticFitChick - August 23, 2019 @ 4:35 am

I’m so sorry for your loss. Sadly nursing homes too often are unable to provide the care that we wish our loved ones to have – whether through malicious intent or sheer ignorance. I’m sorry that your family had to deal with that.

I’m very glad that you knew how much your Papa loved you <3

Lovely Amusan - August 23, 2019 @ 11:56 am

I am so sorry to hear that your Grandpa has passed away hun, my sincere condolences to you. Thinking of you at this rather hard time. All the best hun.

xoxo
Lovely
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Kenny - August 23, 2019 @ 7:38 pm

Im so sorry for your loss, Tiffany. 🙁

deidreriley - August 23, 2019 @ 9:41 pm

So sorry for your loss! Your papa sounds like he was a wonderful man.

I lost my grandfather two years ago. Looking back on happy memories helps the healing a lot.

Take care. <3

https://crumplelucinda.blogspot.com

rehitu - August 23, 2019 @ 11:59 pm

Did you denounce that place to the police?

Sorry for your lose. 🙁

Nancy - August 24, 2019 @ 11:08 pm

I am sorry to hear about your grandfather. It is always hard to cope with the loss of a loved one. At the same time, it is good to remember them and celebrate their life. Sending you and your family lots of warm wishes.

Nancy ♥ exquisitely.me

Megan - August 25, 2019 @ 4:46 pm

I’m so sorry! *hugs* I know how hard it is to lose anyone…especially when you’re as close as you seemed to be to him. He sounds like an awesome man. Sounded like he was really good at his job, and the fact he liked Sailor Moon with you guys is cool.

I really don’t like nursing homes. We put my grandma in one when she couldn’t be cared for at home either. The place was cruddy with how they treated her. All they seem to do is take the poor old people’s money. But I’m sorry he had to experience that.

himesara5h - August 25, 2019 @ 7:14 pm

Oh, I’m so sorry about your loss, Tiffany. My deepest condolences to you. Your Papa seems like a great person and a grandfather. And the fact that you bonded over Sailor Moon is very telling. Sending you prayers and lots of love.

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Brandy - August 27, 2019 @ 1:15 am

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I am sending my love to your family. ❤️

Kinga K. - August 27, 2019 @ 4:03 am

I’m sorry to hear that :/

Alaina - August 27, 2019 @ 1:39 pm

I’m so sorry to hear this. He seemed like a diamond in the rough. His spirit will always watch over you 🙂 I love the picture you restored, he seems like he was a great person; a force of nature and positivity. You can carry on his legacy 🙂

I hope you’re able to investigate the nursing home that he was in.. they will get what they deserve. I’m sorry. But he had many years of good living and a loving granddaughter and that’s pretty special ✨

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