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Love Is Zero – Why I am Childfree

Why I am Childfree

Posted on Tuesday, Nov. 13th 2018 9:32 AM | by Tiffany

I am more than my womb or the children that society thinks that I should be having. My lack of parenthood doesn’t make me less of a woman. I am not any less fulfilled than I would if I had children, in fact I would be less fulfilled. There is no meter on accomplishment, fulfillment, success, hard work, or tiredness. Or that having kids makes that somehow make all these things mean more or less, it means the same. Just like it was my choice to not have children, it was a parent’s choice to have children. So, I am not any less anything because of that, if someone feels that way then that is on them. I respect good parents but those also aren’t the ones insulting me when I say I am tried for working hard either.

  • I can’t imagine loving a kid as much as I love my old bunny Lemon, and I don’t want to.
  • The thought of pregnancy to me seems disgusting, creepy, gross, and scary.
  • Children are horrible. (Oh! but everyone said their angel is special. ‘eyeroll’)
  • I just don’t think that I could take care of a child, I have a hard enough time taking care of myself and the buns. I don’t want to try anyway.
  • I like silence.
  • Having kids is bad for the Earth, it’s already overpopulated.
  • I want to spend time doing what I want and not what some bratty kid wants.
  • I don’t want to plan my life around children.
  • I don’t have to worry about parenthood having a negative impact on a career.
  • I’m not a mombie.
  • I just don’t think I am responsible enough.
  • Look at the news, school shootings, NRA, crime, and anti-vaxxers. Those are all threats that I don’t have to fear for children that I don’t have.
  • Money, I don’t have to spend on a child.
  • I can play with my neighbor’s children and give them back when they are being horrible. I don’t have to deal with the bad parts.
  • I’m selfish, literally the same reason for not wanting to be in a relationship, but I don’t want this human being to tie me to someone else for the rest of my life.
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    Comments (3)

    nataya - November 13, 2018 @ 7:45 am

    this is so stupid are you nuts no one cares about your posts

    Tiffany
    Tiffany - November 14, 2018 @ 1:06 am

    Obviously, you care, thanks for caring and adding to my views, your a doll. If you had a real opinion you could stand on than you wouldn’t post on an anonymous account, that is because what your saying isn’t worth saying, be blessed <3

    Nine - November 14, 2018 @ 2:48 pm

    We are so much alike because I don’t want any kids, simply because I do not want to take care of them. I raised my youngest nephew because my stupid sister didn’t wanted to be responsible for her kids (total of 3 kids) and two of them are together in a foster home with great foster parents but the youngest couldn’t be placed when I was 19 So I took care of him with my parents under one condition and that was that I will not change diapers with poop.

    My nephew was so freaking disgusting when it came to pooping and the smell made me gag and when people say: but with your own child it will be different. Oh hell no it will not be different. Poop is poop and baby poop is 100% worser.

    Ofcourse I also had some fun moments with him but hell no that I want a kid on my own. I like my freedom and kids are taking away freedom. People often say: You will change your mind when you’re older. I’m 28 if I wanted kids then I would already have them by now.

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