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Why I am Childfree

Nov. 13th 2018

I am more than my womb or the children that society thinks that I should be having. My lack of parenthood doesn’t make me less of a woman. I am not any less fulfilled than I would if I had children, in fact I would be less fulfilled. There is no meter on accomplishment, fulfillment, success, hard work, or tiredness. Or that having kids makes that somehow make all these things mean more or less, it means the same. Just like it was my choice to not have children, it was a parent’s choice to have children. So, I am not any less anything because of that, if someone feels that way then that is on them. I respect good parents but those also aren’t the ones insulting me when I say I am tried for working hard either.

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Single & Doesn’t Want to Mingle

Nov. 6th 2018

I think if your a female and not in a relationship people always push you why not, oh the right guy is around the corner as if I care. I don’t need a guy or anyone else to define who I am, and I don’t need a man to make me feel whole or complete. Everyone always assumes that if especially a woman is single, that it must be because either A there is something wrong with her, B She isn’t dateable, or C that she is waiting or pine for the right guy. Which literally are bullshit reasons, maybe we don’t want some stab of fat attached to us where we have to be responsible for some man-child, or it could be because we don’t need to have some random guy to be happy because we are happy on our own. I like to be alone, I like not having to check and be dependant on someone else to live my own best life.

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Writing Galore

Oct. 16th 2018

Fanfiction has really been the focus of my free time lately, I recently finished a flash fiction challenge and a Halloween one-shot challenge that should be up soon. I really enjoy being in fandom-related groups and doing fanfiction challenges, especially in the Harry/Hermione facebook group I am in. I do not only have some that I am working on at the moment but also some already completed. Also, considering I type and write slowly I probably shouldn’t have entered Rough Trade‘s Little Black Dress Challenge in July, but I did. So, obviously, I didn’t finish them during the month of July, and they aren’t finished now. However, I will be finishing them, I will start with the Hey Arnold one, and the Harry Potter one for the fact that I have completed plot and online for that one. Another note is that the rating may change.

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I’m already there

Sep. 25th 2018

There is always that one family member who you love so much and want so much for but they don’t want or try for themselves. You’re just waiting for them to hit rock bottom, so that they can be rebuild and heal into the someone you know that they really are. When your cousin has been to jail twice in the last two month, for drugs and reckless driving. It’s not even as if she has been making different choices, she is doing the same thing expecting different results. That’s just insanity.

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Thirty things you didn’t want to know

Sep. 11th 2018

Thirty things that you don’t know about me/my life. I got this idea from another fanfiction/published author that I am a fan, so credit due to Keira Marcos.

  • I didn’t know how to cook until I went vegan.
  • As a teen I was told that I should be flattered that someone older than supposedly hotter was flirting and harassing me even though I didn’t encourage it, and I said no. I knew that it always felt wrong to me, but now I know how I felt was valid. That my no should have been enough.

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